When server explorer doesn't open when clicking on the menu option
View|Server Explorer, the first solution is to run the command
/ResetSkipPkgs on the visual studio command prompt. Open a development command line window by clicking on the
Start|Programs|Microsoft Visual Studio 2008|Visual Studio Tools|Visual Studio 2008 Command Prompt shortcut.
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devenv /resetskippkgs in there. What
/ResetSkipPkgs does is that it clears all options to skip loading added to VSPackages by users wishing to avoid loading problem VSPackages, and then starts Visual Studio. The presence of a SkipLoading tag disables the loading of a VSPackage; clearing the tag re-enables the loading of the VSPackage. If this doesn't work, then reinstall the visual studio again.